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I Love Sleeping in

My Saturdays are usually the same. I happily sleep in, luxuriating in those extra hours of coziness. Then I’ll wake up, make my bed, spend a couple of minutes in gratitude for my little life, and have my food fixation breakfast of the weekend (now it’s Truely blueberry cereal with almond milk and a banana). I’ll begrudgingly do some laundry and then join family chat. Yes, every Saturday I have a scheduled WhatsApp call with my two big brothers and my mom from 2 pm to 3 pm, sometimes longer depending on what debate is happening. We’ve been doing it since 2020, when COVID started and never stopped.

Usually, if my partner isn’t working, we’ll spend the afternoons together, watching a movie or making dinner. But it’s his busy season now, so lately, I’ve been left to my own devices.

Recently, I’ve been trying to get out of a gloomier headspace because I’ve noticed my negativity sometimes seeps into everything. I’ve become restless and grumpy, which causes tension in my body and in my relationships. I feel more stressed, and this just isn’t who I am or want to be. So I’m actively working on seeing my life through a different lens. I’m journaling more and have started a daily practice of being in gratitude. I slow down now when doing things and really take the time to notice. I look deeply. I savour my meals. I linger. Earlier, I had chocolate chia pudding with raspberries and revelled in the contrast between sweetness, tartness and chocolatiness. It was divine.

Being Still

Yesterday, instead of rushing to the store to finish my grocery shopping, I took a detour and sat on a bench in the park. I enjoyed the sunshine, the laughter of kids darting in and out of the splash pad, and the energy of zooming floofy dogs. It felt good to simply be, to experience peace without carrying the weight of everything. I sat there for almost an hour, then had a lovely little grocery run at Farm Boy and picked up some beautiful zucchini I’ll be roasting for dinner today.

That’s my goal for this summer: to remind myself that there’s a duality to life. Whatever we’re going through, there is always something to be grateful for. We are still here, beloved. There’s so much to cherish. What a blessing it is to see another summer, to have family and friends, to sit in the sun and watch children play, to feel a warm breeze while holding a loved one’s hand. What a beautiful thing it is to be alive.

Gratitude List

Here are a few small things I’ve been grateful for lately. Not the grandest of things, but the little comforts, discoveries, and moments that have made these past two weeks feel lighter, my bright spots.

Shopping for plants

This refreshing beet juice from Fresh, that I keep going back to.

Beet juice from Fresh restaurant in a clear cup

This leakproof underwear from Knix, because humid Toronto summers require practical forms of grace.

Knix underwear

This wonderful session by Trista of Rad Lady Enterprises and Michele on building resonant websites, which I attended at Toronto Tech Week.

Presentation in progress

Beloved, I hope you, too, take some time to breathe, rest deeply, and enjoy this season. May it be gentle, and may your heart remain light. May we all have reasons for gratitude this summer. xoxo

Today, I planned to go to church and take a much-needed afternoon nap. Instead, poor air quality and a long chat with a friend kept me home. The nap never happened either, thanks to a clogged toilet and my crash course in using a toilet auger. The joys of adulting, right?

This week felt unusual. I planned to blog and be more active on social media, but work and other projects took priority. I also spent hours helping a friend with immigration paperwork, reading through everything to make sure they had what they needed. I felt guilty about not being consistently online, but I had to remind myself: building community means actually being present in it.

When I did get online, the mood felt heavier than usual. A recurring theme on my feed has been recession indicators and the financial burdens so many of us are facing. Groceries are expensive, gas prices are soaring, and thousands have lost jobs or are struggling in the job market. During a work presentation this week, I learned that, from a public health perspective, more and more children are going to bed hungry every month. Conversations with friends in public health and social justice have highlighted the same trend: funding is drying up, and people are scared for their jobs, and for those they serve.

It’s an anxious time, but for those of us who still have jobs and income, I wanted to share a few things I’m doing to reduce my anxiety about money and strengthen my foundation. This is what slow living during a recession looks like for me right now.

Budget refinement

This year is my year of stewardship (I’ll blog about that soon). I’m actively working to reduce my spending and make the most of what I already have at home. I’m buying less clothing and really considering my choices when I do shop. Cooking and baking at home has become the norm, and I’m doing a deep spring clean, finding creative ways to reuse things I already own along the way. I’m focusing more on saving and being mindful about wants versus needs. And yes, I’m also doing my nails at home.

Preventive health

I encourage everyone to book all their preventive health appointments, which are often covered by insurance (especially while you’re employed). For many of us, extended health benefits are tied to our jobs, mine included. Last week, I had an extensive dental cleaning and blood work to check in on my health post-surgery. In the weeks ahead, I’ll finally be replacing an overdue dental crown. Thankfully, insurance covers half the cost of the crown. June is packed with an eye exam and visits to my acupuncturist, naturopath, osteopath, and podiatrist for new orthotic soles. All these checkups give me peace of mind. If you can, get yourself and your kids checked out, fill your prescriptions, and make sure you know where you stand, because diagnostics can be expensive out-of-pocket. So take care of that sore back, itchy patch, or whatever has been niggling you. Plus, the bonus is that the weather is getting nicer, so it feels less of a chore than it would in the winter.

Cool girl summer

This year, my partner and I are cutting back on travel. Normally, we’d do a big summer trip and another in the fall, but this time we’re staying in Toronto. If we can manage a budget-friendly fall getaway, great, but we’re not counting on it. Travel is wonderful, but flight prices are just too steep right now. Instead, I’m putting together a guide of free and low-cost activities for us this summer. The Toronto Library has been an amazing resource (free museum passes!), and I’m planning picnics at the beach and High Park. Maybe we’ll use our annual free hotel night for a quick weekend away. We’ll see how it goes. Summer spending can add up fast, but we’re excited to stay close to home and enjoy all the city has to offer. Honestly, I love Toronto in the summer.

Taking care of my mental health

Things are tough and complicated for a lot of us trying to hold things together, but I’m doing my best to prepare and strengthen my foundation. I’m taking morning walks and finding ways to move joyfully. Journaling and meditating (thanks, Insight Timer, for the free meditations!) are part of my routine, and I’m resisting the urge to buy more notebooks, even though I love stationery. I reminded myself during a recent trip to Good Neighbour that I have a stack of unused notebooks at home, stewardship in action.

Slow living during a recession, home goods at Good Neighbour store
Home Goods at Good Neighbour

Finally, I’m lending a hand where I can by making small donations to GoFundMes for people struggling to put food on the table or pay rent, and giving my time when possible. I encourage you to do the same. Plan as best you can, but remember: we are who we need, and we belong to each other. I don’t know exactly how all of this resolves, but I know we get through it by tending. To our foundations, and to each other.

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